Which is more of an illusion? Safe and secure or Threatened? If you feel over confident you could end up making a mistake and getting hurt. If you are to trusting you could leave yourself vulnerable and compromised. If you feel threatened you end up living behind a wall of suspicion weary of everyone's motives.This feeling can make you shut out anything good. This is a feeling I've lived w/most of my life and am trying to change. And In the long run It doesn't really make you safer, just lonelier.
Feeling threatened is more safe for me. The other has proven to be illusive.
ReplyDeleteFor me, it is safe but not secure. It is kind of mix feeling in here - in between of those you mentioned - sort of complete it all..
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